When someone who formerly loved you reveals that he no longer does so. Believe me, he’s a different person, he has a different perspective, and you barely know him; it’s as if someone who used to love you, the person you used to know, has truly left your life. Yes, if you discovered your husband with another woman, even though he previously adored you so much that he did not believe he could betray you. Then you must be perplexed if you are searching for multiple explanations why you are inferior; why can’t you contend with the newcomers? It has no purpose. Let’s come up with a better way to cope with life, just like with this client of mine.

Episode 1: I am detective spy191. This is a true anecdote that occurred between myself and a consumer. (I already asked a permission from her). She was approximately 30 years old at that time, this client contacted me to investigate evidence that her spouse was unfaithful. (Because the husband did not admit it). This client called me multiple times per day to provide me with information, but mostly weeping and gushing about how much her spouse once adored her. Initially, I comforted my customer, but as I observed that her symptoms did not improve, I realized that I needed to assist her in finding a solution. Therefore, I joked and sarcastically stated that even if she cries her eyes out in front of that man, he will not adore her back. (After hearing the details of her narrative, I believe it will be very difficult for them to reunite.) She was flabbergasted for a while, presumably blotting her eyes and her cheeks, and then she asked me, “What kind of a detective are you, you never console, but instead seem to be offended?” before hanging up. Due to an imminent mission, I had not yet investigated the matter she engaged me to investigate. During that period, she would call and weep while recounting her story. Occasionally, I was the only one who could hear her cries. That was my thought at the time: I am willing to listen if doing so alleviates some of her pains, which I would be glad to do.

Episode 2: When the commencement date arrived, I traveled to the area with another team member. The duration of the project is five days. I must meticulously consider how to affix the GPS and take as many photographs as possible. I rented a residence close to her husband’s chamber. But the man never returned to his chamber for even a day. I also went to his workplace to wait for him for five days, but I never saw him arrive. Until I returned with a new plan and assumed that her spouse would not be present, I believed that he would not be present. The following day, I contacted her again and informed her that a subordinate member of the team would be returning home to the hometown (where it is near the residence of her husband’s affair), and that I would allow him to observe it. She promptly responded that her spouse would never visit a woman’s residence. Even though everything was crystal obvious, she still held onto hope and refused to embrace the truth. She listened and concurred after I informed her that, as a detective, I had to consider every possible scenario and outcome. Even so, she continued to complain ceaselessly.

Episode 3: The subordinate members of the team drive to the target home with a video camera in the afternoon, but no one is in front of the house. I gave up on the possibility that he wasn’t there either. I then sent her a video and informed her that there was no one there, only a pickup vehicle. She instructed the novice members of the team to return and photograph the black sedan car because the automobile resembles that of her spouse’s. As anticipated, that vehicle belongs to her spouse. She instructed the member to transmit their coordinates. She wished to know where the location was. I asked her, “Could you kindly, do not visit the target’s residence,” she acknowledged my purpose before hanging up. In 7:00 p.m., she reported that she had just returned from an adultery residence. I was astounded by her acceptance; however, she violated the agreement. So, I asked how things were going. She informed me that when she arrived, the relatives on the other side of the dispute were seated in front of the residence consuming food. She entered the area and inquired where her spouse was, someone indicated that he was in the kitchen. She encountered her spouse while he was preparing foods. Simultaneously, she heard the adulterer exclaiming to her husband, “Your wife has arrived!” Her husband yelled at her, “Why did you come now that we’re divorced?” “When did we get divorced? I advised you to file for divorce, but you did not comply” she replied. He turned to see an adulterous woman approaching him on foot. She stated that she was astonished for a time, but eventually realized that her husband doesn’t having an affair with a good lady. She thought he has fell in love with this woman because she is attractive (I neglected to mention that women work at night), but when she met the actual one, she was nothing like that. She is more beautiful than her, everything, including her education. It’s like being startled upon seeing a woman. She returned to her vehicle. Her spouse entered the room and retrieves a pistol to compel her to return home. At the time, she was accompanied by her parents. Her mother yelled and dragged her into the car out of terror that the man would murder her. She stated she had no concern of being assassinated at the time. In hindsight, however, individuals who fell out of love frequently committed homicide against one another. There is daily news to be viewed, but why do these individuals never consider the day they fell in love?